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Showing posts with label Nigerian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nigerian. Show all posts
Monday, 30 July 2018
Sunday, 17 June 2018
Dating for dummies
If you are a young lad and are in a time in your life when it feels like the right time to get 'hooked' as many would call it, then you should consider these things I am going to say in few words.
What are they saying?
Dating has been given a lot of definitions both by experts and dummies like yourself. Some have said it is a period where you get to know the one with whom you have decided to get hitched. Others consider it as the 'going-to-the-restaurant' season of the relationship, where you talk about random stuffs. They believe it is in this time the guy sees if the girl is able to use the cutleries, vis a vis. These are the usual responses you get from friends and people who care to give their opinion. For all kinds of definitions, the purpose for dating has been to see if the person is a suitable partner for a romantic relationship leading to marriage.
Why all the name calling?
By 'dummies' I do not intend it for an insult of any sort. It is just a term used these days to show one who is stepping into a phase or knowledge they don't have prior understanding of. You and I may have taken a couple of words out of context. It is okay. But let's start using the dictionary to know the meaning of words for what they represent and not for what society has made them. Just like dating doesn't translate "being in a relationship," we should know that the word "dummy" doesn't mean an insult.
This is who you are, at least, until you finish reading this article. Moreover, I am not the first person to call you this.
Joy Browne, the author of Dating for Dummies, found the word a suitable one for people who are looking to step into the dating arena for the first time. She believes that dating doesn't have to be "nerve-wracking," but one has to be equipped with the right information while stepping into it.
Why do we bother?
Dating is important because no one intends to jump into a river without first considering whether or not there are predators. It is always important that you look before you leap. You should enquire about your prospective partner and get to know if you can deal with their baggage.
According to Joy Browne "You must do some up-front soul searching to make sure you’re ready to be honest, open, and attentive. You need a strong sense of your dating expectations so you can clearly communicate what you’re looking for without setting the bar so high that no one can clear it. You must be cautious about how and where you meet potential dates, especially if you’re looking online. And you should remember that a date is just a date — and it can actually be fun! Whether your long-term goal is to get married and start a family or to set sail around the world in a sailboat built for two, you start in the same place: on a first date."
Love at first sight?
There is no such thing as love at first sight. There are people you have met, and at first sight, you are attracted to them; that isn't love. "Na when dem show you their true colour na that time we go know whether na love or na infatuation." That came out fine right?
Do not be deceived, it is always wise to speak with those you perceive as knowledgeable in this dating thing before you jump at it. And also, be wise not to base your expectations on the experiences of others. Remember the words of Joy Browne:"Remember that a date is just a date, and it can be fun."
Remember I am @andreyyte on Instagram and Twitter. Leave me your comments. I am always glad reading them.
Thursday, 31 May 2018
President Buhari Signs Not-Too-Young-To-Run Bill into Law
You and I know that there is no excuse not to get registered and pursue your political goals.
President Muhammadu Buhari has signed the Not-Too-Young-To-Run Bill into law.
The Bill was signed into law at the Council Chambers of the Presidential Villa, Abuja, barely two days after President Buhari had promised to do so.
This promise was made by the president in his Democracy Day speech on Tuesday.
The law reduces the age qualification for president from 40 to 30; governor from 35 to 30; senator from 35 to 30; House of Representatives membership from 30 to 25 and State House of Assembly membership from 30 to 25.
Hey guys, knot your ties and wear you hats, dust your voters card. It is time to vote some oldies out of office.
Photocred- Channeltv.com
I am @andreyyte on twitter and Instagram.
Wednesday, 16 September 2015
CEO of Doxology Music and award winning music producer releases Themed Photos Ahead Of Sept. 20th Birthday
DOXOLOGY MUSIC |
If you have been active online this week, you couldn’t have missed the activities on Wilson Joel’s social media as the CEO of Doxology Music and award winning music producer has been oozing with testimonies!
The music magnate, as he is fondly referred to is set to celebrate his birthday on the 20th of September and has released happy-themed photos in commemoration of the day.
The music magnate, as he is fondly referred to is set to celebrate his birthday on the 20th of September and has released happy-themed photos in commemoration of the day.
“Today, I remember the days when I couldn't feed 1 square meal a day. Days when my life was a total shade of doubts, low self esteem and absolute dark clouds… The days garri, groundnuts and salt made me shout ‘Thank You Jesus!’ …Someone else might not know it but I am a BETA version of me today because I endured all those periods in my life!” Wilson Joel said.
Wilson Joel’s photos tell the story of how things have turned out now juxtaposing with how things where – another side of the story which he has been posting on his social media accounts.
Monday, 14 September 2015
[SEE THIS] Happy Birthday to Basketmouth
So with today (September 14) being the birthday of one of the biggest comedians in Nigeria, Basketmouth, I want to say a big HAPPY BIRTHDAY and THANK YOU to him for being who he is. He is an inspiration to so many comedians and youth out there.
Wednesday, 26 August 2015
FASHION STYLES LIKE YOU WANT IT
I wanted to find something fascinating for my viewers as they go through the week, so I went on pinterest.com and made a collection of the inspiration I found.
Thursday, 20 August 2015
Trend: #PennsylvaniaVideoByBlessingTangban #Anticipate this video and tell your friends about it!!!! @blessingtangban
BLESSING TANGBAN |
If you have been on Instagram for these past few days, you would have seen the buzz that's been on the Social Media about the much anticipated Video of Pennsylvania - a song by Blessing Tangban.
As we anticipate the video of PENNSYLVANIA by Blessing Tangban, here is a brief info about the songwriter and acoustic singer.
My name is Blessing Tangban. I'm a Nigerian born acoustic singer/songwriter based in New Orleans LA; home of delicious crawfish, Bouborn street, and crazy Mardi Gras.She moved back to Nigeria to continue with pursuing her goal which is "writing songs about matters that attempts to explain our everyday existence..."
I love to write songs about matters that attempt to explain our everyday existence on planet earth. Please visit my page, like, subscribe and enjoy the music.
The beautiful graduate of Criminal Justice (Southern University at New Orleans) is set to release her official video of one of her songs titled Pennsylvania. Click here to download audio of Pennsylvania
Follow her on Instagram and Twitter : @blessingtangban
Tweets by @BlessingTangban
Wednesday, 29 July 2015
Photos: Ile-Ife in sombre mood following the death of Ooni of Ife, markets close down
Tuesday, 28 July 2015
Introducing President Buhari's Media Team (photos)
Selfies of the newly constituted Media team with The Senior
Special Assistant to the President on Media and Publicity, Mr Garba
Shehu. More photos after the cut...
States to start drawing from N300b Presidential Special Intervention Fund soon - Presidency
"The implementation of a three-pronged financial intervention of President Muhammadu Buhari to assuage workers plight and support the states is now in progress. Specifically, state governments will start benefiting from the special intervention fund of between N250B to N300B in a matter of weeks.
Currently, planning meetings are being held between members of the Federation Account Allocation Committee, FAAC and CBN, on the one hand, and also between CBN and commercial banks on the other hand, regarding details of the special intervention fund and the debt relief program of the President for the states.
Thursday, 23 July 2015
#Interviews: Tee Jones (Nigerian) Dubai Based HipHop Artist
Tee Jones |
I got talking with this guy who I have come in contact with so many a time and is an amazing vocalist. He is a multi talented person and you can't ignore his looks (Yaay!!!). I listened to some of his tracks, one of which is Blessings . How he could move from that HipHop to that RnB kinda feel is amazing and you should listen. I did a quick check on him and here is what he had to reveal.
Saturday, 18 July 2015
Friday, 17 July 2015
Etcetera Writes ''Dear Nigerian Women..Why Men Cheat''
When you heard the news that Toke Makinwa’s husband impregnated his girlfriend, you all took to social media to rain insults on Nigerian men. Why men cheat on women they love became a topic for all female radio presenters in the country. Aren’t you all tired of asking the same question over and over as if it is some perplexing unfathomable mystery?
Your question is rhetorical, but since it keeps coming up again and again, let me provide some explanations to help you understand the reasons. I will simply tell it like it is, with no bull, tact, or political correctness. It’s just that oftentimes; women do not accept the explanations. But in fact, one can understand it through common sense. Sometimes a man would cheat on his wife or girlfriend because he doesn’t love her anymore; he is bored with her, or even possibly unhappy with their relationship.
In such scenarios, even women can
Wednesday, 15 July 2015
Why I chose Yar'Adua to suceed me as president - Olusegun Obasanjo
Former president Olusegun Obasanjo has revealed he choose the late Musa
Yar'Adua as his successor because he was the only aspirant who was not
corrupt at the time..After Yar'Adua died on May 5, 2010 from
heart-related ailments,Obasanjo was
condemned for choosing a man who was sick to lead
the country..Speaking with Channels Tv at his Hilltop
residence,Abeokuta, he said
Monday, 13 July 2015
APC Vows to Release “Shocking Revelations” about former President, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.
The tussle between the ruling All Progressives Congress and the
opposition Peoples Democratic Party has been heated as APC vows to
reveal irregularities in President Goodluck Jonathan's administration.
Former President, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan |
National publicity secretary of the All Progressives Congress, Lai
Mohammed on Sunday, July 12, released a statement in which he vowed that
the party would disclose “shocking revelations” about ex president
Goodluck Jonathan‘s administration.
According to The Cable, the statement contains accusations made by APC against PDP.
N2bn #Fraud: Oronsaye’s #Trial Begins October 28
Justice Gabriel Kolawole of the Federal High Court, Abuja, on July 13,
2015 fixed the trial of a former Head of Service, HoS, Stephen Oronsaye,
and two others who were brought before it by the Economic and Financial
Crimes Commission, EFCC, on a 24-count charge bordering on stealing and
obtaining money by false pretence for October 28, 29; November 3, 5 and
December 2, 2015 respectively.
>Continue Read<
Friday, 10 July 2015
President Buhari and Vice to recieve 50% of actual salary
The presidency announced today that President Buhari and VP Osinbajo have decided to take a pay cut. They will now only receive 50% of what GEJ and Sambo received during their administration.
The Permanent Secretary of the State House, Nebolisa Emodi wrote to the Office of the Secretary to the Government of the Federation yesterday. Osinbajo also agreed to take a pay cut. Buhari will now receive 50% of his annual N14, 058,820.00.“I write to forward the completed IPPIS registration form of Mr. President and to draw your kind attention to Mr. President’s directive that only 50% of his salary be paid to him,”
The president's annual salary is revealed to be about N40m.
Tuesday, 7 July 2015
Boko Haram sends threat mail to ThisDay Editor
A features editor with Thisday newspapers, Adeola Akinremi
reportedly received a threat mail from members of the insurgency group,
Boko Haram over his anti-Boko Haram articles. Akinremi received the
threat mail in May after his visit to Adamawa state to
investigate the plight of Internally
Displaced Persons and the activities of the sect in the state.
Akinremi afterwards wrote a piece titled, Why Boko Haram don’t
deserve our amnesty?.
Paradigm Initiative Nigeria conducts ICT training for 27 Secondary schools in Imo State
Dare to be B.I.G (Brightest ICT Guy or Girl) is an exciting ICT quiz competition bringing early unique opportunities, positive peer pressure and showcasing Africa’s budding ICT talents from Secondary Schools.
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